Sounds like quite an adventure NDS. I usually make it a habit to go out with guys at least in similar shape ands experience. But that is not always possible as you found out.
My most memorable trip was in February 1971 while in college in Durango, CO.
We left Ft. Lewis college and hitchhiked to Rockwood, Colorado with 70 pound packs. We cross country skied along the Durango Narrow Gauge tracks to the Needleton Bridge. That took 2 days. One place on the tracks had an ice flow that blocked access and we had to carefully cross it. On one side of the tracks 5 feet away we had a cliff 100 feet high, on the other side just 6 feet from the tracks the cliff dropped over 100 feet into the icy Animas River below. We roped up and strangely enough this was the most dangerous part of the climb in many ways.
We finally left the tracks at the Needleton Bridge and headed East in to Chicago Basin. We discovered our food cache had been wiped out in the fall floods so now we were going to have to stretch things. Shoulda buried it a bit higher. We had also cached extra coleman fuel for our Optimus 8R stoves. We did not want to carry all that in so we cached it along with extra food the previous fall.
Our plan was to make the first winter ascent of Mt. Eolus 14,080'. The last Colorado 14, 000' summit that had
not been climbed in winter.
The trip into Chicago Basin from the Needleton Bridge took another 2 grueling days. 6 miles all uphill, a narrow trail and in deep powder snow with heavy packs. Keep in mind the cross country and backing industry was not as hi tech as it is today.
We arrived at base camp at the base of Mt Eolus's South ridge right at timberline.
Next day at 4:30 AM we left camp by headlamp. Headlamps were big heavy Ray O Vacs that held 2 D cells and put out probably 25 lumens. The ridge was hardpacked and required ice axe (I had an Austrian stubai wooden shaft) and crampons (we had army surplus 10 pointers without front points). It was steep and exposed and required a rope in a few places, not terribly technical. It was slow and just at the point of no return about 3/4 of the way up, a storm started moving in. We arrived on the summit at about 6:30 or so IIRC. Just about dark and we had to get back. The ascent route was out of the question-too technical given the conditions. So we headed down the west side of Mt. Eolus hoping to swing back to the South to our base camp. The storm was now full blown, 20-30 MPH winds and visibility about 50 yards or maybe more. Our gloves were iced up and frozen as were our boots/toes. My goggles were frozen to my face. We found a small sheltered area where we tried to light a Sterno stove just to warm our hands. Pretty futile. Finally about 1:00 AM the storm broke and off to the distance we could see lights of civilization....while still at 13,2000 feet. The temps dropped but at least we could see...sorta as the bright stary nite on the snowy slopes was pretty decent light once your eyes adapted.
On the descent, we kept getting cliffed out and had to change direction. I had little feeling in my toes at this point. I slipped once and my ice axe caught me just before a 40 foot cliff. We stumbled into camp around 5:00 in the morning and slept until the afternoon. The warm sun felt good in our tents and my toes...which were all tingly.
We left the next day and it took 3 days to get back to Rockwood where we could hitch back.
My toes were numb for many months and extremes of hot or cold they felt wierd. Fortunately I did not get serious frostbite.
While on the summit, we discovered that the climbers from the Colorado School of Mines had made the first ascent of Mt. Eolus over Christmas break. But they went up the more pedestrian east slopes route. So we claimed first dibs on the South route, a bit harder. Oh well...
My parents were worried and my roomate said we had been gone over a week. We called the sheriff just as we were checking in, as one of the workers at the Rockwood station was alerted to 2 climbers that might be lost and he was on search and rescue.
Naturally my parents were pissed and worried. I also missed a Botany mid-term test and got grief from my professor.
Being only 19 at the time I am amazed the crap I could pull off and stay safe. Gotta love youth. Just enough brains and common sense to stay alive.
Here is a pic-looking SSW of the route we took (left hand skyline in fog) and the face we descended (right lower part of pic in the gullies) in the dark. This pic was taken years later in the late summer from North Mt Eolus.

Stay safe NDS!